What matters most
Map which cultural moments are non-negotiable for each family and place them at the right point in the day.
Points to work through
- Balance languages and traditions across phases rather than segregating the night into blocks.
- Confirm exact versions of ceremonial songs and who approves them, to avoid a wrong rendition.
- Plan transitions between very different styles so the floor is carried, not cleared.
- Agree a short do-not-play list that respects both families’ sensitivities.